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38 / Female

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Posted: May 23 2006 at 06:16 PM

well i know some are already in uni and others are in the process of getting there.. and the younger ones still have it to look forward to .. but for real what do u do .. when you have to choose between the right university for you.. or would u got to the one ur special someone is going to .. or is already at???

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Posted: May 23 2006 at 06:19 PM

Good question, I had friends that went to a university because their SO was there. Always turned out to be the wrong choice.

On the other hand, I saw couples being seperated by universities and not lasting because of the distance. So it is pretty hard to say.

Personally, I would go to the university of my choice, only because career is really important to me. I am really "future" oriented and believe that my SO will stick by me no matter what!

Deena, are you heading to Uni this year?

38 / Female

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Posted: May 23 2006 at 06:23 PM

well my question is really off actually cuz me and my bf just broke up .. after fucking 8 months .. those 8 months which he was there .. and now that we are together in the same city we are not together any more

38 / Female

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Posted: May 23 2006 at 06:24 PM

^^^ aint that sad?!?!?

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Posted: May 23 2006 at 06:29 PM

It doesn't surprise me....I have witnessed so many couples break up after first year university. I think people start hitting their maturity level, their interests change and they concentrate more on their studies than on the relationship itself. At least that was the case with my ex. We broke up under very similar conditions.

Are you guys living at the same city for the summer time only?

37 / Female

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Posted: May 23 2006 at 06:39 PM

I would not suggest going to the same university just because your special someone is there. Firstly, you do not want to resent them because you went there because of them. I mean that is a sure way to kill a relationship...the blame game comes into play. I would suggest going where you feel you are most likely to succeed. I realise that the distance factor is a major issue...but you do not want to start to hate the person you love or once loved because of either a) too much of each other or b) making a decision purely based on seeing them.

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Posted: May 23 2006 at 06:41 PM

I would not suggest going to the same university just because your special someone is there. Firstly, you do not want to resent them because you went there because of them. I mean that is a sure way to kill a relationship...the blame game comes into play. I would suggest going where you feel you are most likely to succeed. I realise that the distance factor is a major issue...but you do not want to start to hate the person you love or once loved because of either a) too much of each other or b) making a decision purely based on seeing them.

But I went to York because of you......

38 / Female

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Posted: May 23 2006 at 06:42 PM

	Quote: The_Icepick
	It doesn't surprise me....I have witnessed so many couples break up after first year university. I think people start hitting their maturity level, their interests change and they concentrate more on their studies than on the relationship itself. At least that was the case with my ex. We broke up under very similar conditions. Are you guys living at the same city for the summer time only?

well see i'm going to uni jsut this year so .. this year i was in high school .. and now he's back from uni.. but this guy was great .. he came to see me every weekend it was really sweet...

and now i have to decide which one i to go to .. and he's at western .. and me .. well i dont know which one to go to .. western or mcmaster ?!?!?

38 / Female

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Posted: May 23 2006 at 06:43 PM

I would not suggest going to the same university just because your special someone is there. Firstly, you do not want to resent them because you went there because of them. I mean that is a sure way to kill a relationship...the blame game comes into play. I would suggest going where you feel you are most likely to succeed. I realise that the distance factor is a major issue...but you do not want to start to hate the person you love or once loved because of either a) too much of each other or b) making a decision purely based on seeing them.

well see i dont know which one to go to really .. number 1.. and they are both good uni's ... hmm but it's werid cuz i dont really have this problem.. since i no longer have a bf... (wow .. that's tough to say)

38 / Female

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Posted: May 23 2006 at 06:45 PM

Quote: The_Icepick

I would not suggest going to the same university just because your special someone is there. Firstly, you do not want to resent them because you went there because of them. I mean that is a sure way to kill a relationship...the blame game comes into play. I would suggest going where you feel you are most likely to succeed. I realise that the distance factor is a major issue...but you do not want to start to hate the person you love or once loved because of either a) too much of each other or b) making a decision purely based on seeing them.

But I went to York because of you......

aww that would be so cute lol..

u wanna know something sad tho .. my ex.. went to the university that was furthest from toronto -- for which he had applied to -- because he wanted to move on i guess cuz he had liked me for a while b4 and only a lil after we began to date

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Posted: May 23 2006 at 07:01 PM

Quote: MizzDeena

I would not suggest going to the same university just because your special someone is there. Firstly, you do not want to resent them because you went there because of them. I mean that is a sure way to kill a relationship...the blame game comes into play. I would suggest going where you feel you are most likely to succeed. I realise that the distance factor is a major issue...but you do not want to start to hate the person you love or once loved because of either a) too much of each other or b) making a decision purely based on seeing them.

well see i dont know which one to go to really .. number 1.. and they are both good uni's ... hmm but it's werid cuz i dont really have this problem.. since i no longer have a bf... (wow .. that's tough to say)

I have friends at both McMaster and Western. I think it depends on the type of a person you are. Western is a party school, it is known for their spirit. McMaster is extremely competitive but it is a lot closer to home. It took us an hour to get down there.

Since you don't have a bf...don't make a decision based on him, make one that is best for you, remember, you will be spending a lot of money and the next 4 years there...better make it right at the begining!

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Posted: May 23 2006 at 07:02 PM

Quote: MizzDeena

Quote: The_Icepick

I would not suggest going to the same university just because your special someone is there. Firstly, you do not want to resent them because you went there because of them. I mean that is a sure way to kill a relationship...the blame game comes into play. I would suggest going where you feel you are most likely to succeed. I realise that the distance factor is a major issue...but you do not want to start to hate the person you love or once loved because of either a) too much of each other or b) making a decision purely based on seeing them.

But I went to York because of you......

aww that would be so cute lol..

u wanna know something sad tho .. my ex.. went to the university that was furthest from toronto -- for which he had applied to -- because he wanted to move on i guess cuz he had liked me for a while b4 and only a lil after we began to date

Things like that happen, unfortunately! =(

You seem like a great girl....move on, forget the past and concentrate on what is important; your future. The rest will take care of itself....you will see

37 / Female

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Posted: May 23 2006 at 07:31 PM

Quote: The_Icepick

I would not suggest going to the same university just because your special someone is there. Firstly, you do not want to resent them because you went there because of them. I mean that is a sure way to kill a relationship...the blame game comes into play. I would suggest going where you feel you are most likely to succeed. I realise that the distance factor is a major issue...but you do not want to start to hate the person you love or once loved because of either a) too much of each other or b) making a decision purely based on seeing them.

But I went to York because of you......

HAHA. that is different darling. you did that for sex...people usually do it for love. we're a special case

39 / Female

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Posted: May 23 2006 at 07:44 PM

Wrong forum!!!!

38 / Female

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Posted: May 24 2006 at 09:51 AM

Quote: The_Icepick

Quote: MizzDeena

I would not suggest going to the same university just because your special someone is there. Firstly, you do not want to resent them because you went there because of them. I mean that is a sure way to kill a relationship...the blame game comes into play. I would suggest going where you feel you are most likely to succeed. I realise that the distance factor is a major issue...but you do not want to start to hate the person you love or once loved because of either a) too much of each other or b) making a decision purely based on seeing them.

well see i dont know which one to go to really .. number 1.. and they are both good uni's ... hmm but it's werid cuz i dont really have this problem.. since i no longer have a bf... (wow .. that's tough to say)

hmm exactly .. that;s also the prob .. see i know what my goals are .. .but i love to party too .. so both schools seem to be good for me.. i just dont know which is PERFECT?!?!
I have friends at both McMaster and Western. I think it depends on the type of a person you are. Western is a party school, it is known for their spirit. McMaster is extremely competitive but it is a lot closer to home. It took us an hour to get down there.

Since you don't have a bf...don't make a decision based on him, make one that is best for you, remember, you will be spending a lot of money and the next 4 years there...better make it right at the begining!

38 / Female

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Posted: May 24 2006 at 09:51 AM

38 / Female

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Rank: God
Posted: May 24 2006 at 09:51 AM

well see i dont know which one to go to really .. number 1.. and they are both good uni's ... hmm but it's werid cuz i dont really have this problem.. since i no longer have a bf... (wow .. that's tough to say)

38 / Female

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Posted: May 24 2006 at 09:52 AM

	Quote: Tinkerb1tch
	Wrong forum!!!!

STFU .. not wrong forum .. read the bullshit then judge!!!!

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