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Posted: May 04 2006 at 06:23 PM

I have been to a lot of cities and ladies were easygoing in those places but Torontonian ladies are not comfortable about relationships. Why is it like that?

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Posted: May 04 2006 at 06:24 PM

hmmm i'd have to say it's a generalization. Plus depends on what you're looking for. are you in search of an actual relationship, or just sex?

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Posted: May 04 2006 at 06:25 PM

coz they dont kno wat they wont and cant handle bein with 1 guy!

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Posted: May 04 2006 at 06:26 PM

Im not talking about one night stand relationships

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Posted: May 04 2006 at 06:27 PM

lol. well then in that case, i know very few women who don't want a relationship. maybe you're looking in the wrong places?

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Posted: May 04 2006 at 06:27 PM

because toronto ladies like to party hard and have fun ( which includes one night stands)

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Posted: May 04 2006 at 06:29 PM

all the guys seem to agree with me so far

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Posted: May 04 2006 at 06:31 PM

but why settle down have fun now these are your peak years, you have enough time to settle down later

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Posted: May 04 2006 at 06:32 PM

I lived in NYC before and I found the girls way more down to earth there. Also I found there are a lot more loser-guys here than there is there. That's probably the main reason I think.

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Posted: May 04 2006 at 07:27 PM

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Posted: May 04 2006 at 07:27 PM

To extrapolate on the subject of loser-guys:

Men have always been the principal architect of post-modern and modern society. Therefore the temperament of women in society can only be a direct result of male influence. Although women have gained significant equities throughout the later 20th century, they still haven't overcome male domination in the social arena,or even economic for that matter.

To put it in simple terms: You Reep What You Sew.

Women in their early teens are quite nieve and are subject to heavy male influence that wasn't there before, and want some form of gratification of their maturity and womanhood via boyfriend. Which is why so many think they are on par with older men, and frequently are manipulated as a direct result.

At the end of abusive/manipulatative relationships it either creates confusion or clearity in the woman's idealogies of what a man should be, and what he shouldn't be.

A lot of young women these days simply aren't learning from bad relationships-they seem to normalize them, and in many cases take on the male role of the previous relationship as it's seen to have less hurt.

With that being said, it is the males that shape the generation of females- contrary to what many female activist would like to admit because it causes a rift in their chief ambitions.

Going back to the topic at hand, young women of today for the most part are treated as objects and not respected independent women. On music videos, magazine covers, and other forms of meida the girls are simply models with little character nor personality, which conveys the wrong message to a young generation. The hollywood women of the 60's had charisma, charcter and a loving personality. Which is contrary to the hollywood woman of today which is only used for male decoration.

New male role models from the emergence of rap during the 90's has created the "I WANT A HOE NOT A WIFE" materialize amongst many of the youth of today.

Once again, you sew what you reep. Males portrayed women with no morale values or sense of independence - then repeatedly treated them to fit this ideaology, now you have a generation of female objects with little sense of self-respect and well-being. Installing proper values and independent thinking is crutial in the parenthood of females today, foreas hollywood has abandonned these altogether since the 80's.

Hence why most of the women I've talked to with interest in Toronto have a lengthy "bullshit stories about EX'S". Many of which are quite unbelievable that such a woman was with a man that treated them like shit for so long.

There will be more ladies in Toronto(and anywhere for that matter) once men start treating them like ladies. So you can blame guys for this fault.

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Posted: May 04 2006 at 07:38 PM

	Quote: Jan_na
	hmmm i'd have to say it's a generalization. Plus depends on what you're looking for. are you in search of an actual relationship, or just sex?

He said relationship duh!

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Posted: May 04 2006 at 07:48 PM

	Quote: markyf
	I have been to a lot of cities and ladies were easygoing in those places but Torontonian ladies are not comfortable about relationships. Why is it like that?

It's not just you, it's a sad reality. I'll recommend the best areas in Toronto to find decent women. Don't go to the club

Rosedale
Beaches
The Danforth
Royal York(north of Bloor south of Eglinton)
Forest Hill
University of Toronto (St.George Campus)
Ryerson University(downtown)

And also the Bank towers downtown. Stroll through some bank towers around lunch time, and you'll see what I'm talking about. Fit bettys that are going somewhere in life. A lot of them live in condos/hotels downtown. Real gems if you can pull it off.

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Posted: May 04 2006 at 07:51 PM

	Quote: soviet_soldie
	coz they dont kno wat they wont and cant handle bein with 1 guy!

I think it is because most guys are so fucking insecure about themselves and their abilities...at the begining when everything is rosy, the relationship might be on the upswing, but as soon as the tough gets going, a lot of guys falter under vaious pressures that arise from having a girlfriend.

I honestly think that so many guys try to go out of their way to impress their girlfriends that sometimes they go over the board...too much of anything is just annoying.

The problem with most couples is that they get together before knowing what they want out of self, how will they ever know what they want from each other? You'd be surprised how far a couple can go when they are determined about achieving their goals, they can use eachother to feedoff, for confidence and of course for relaxation

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Posted: May 04 2006 at 08:07 PM

	Quote: Jan_na
	hmmm i'd have to say it's a generalization. Plus depends on what you're looking for. are you in search of an actual relationship, or just sex?

He said relationship duh!

yes but there are different types of relationships. purely sexual relationships do exist...duhh!

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Posted: May 04 2006 at 08:11 PM

Quote: The_Icepick

	Quote: soviet_soldie
	coz they dont kno wat they wont and cant handle bein with 1 guy!

I think it is because most guys are so fucking insecure about themselves and their abilities...at the begining when everything is rosy, the relationship might be on the upswing, but as soon as the tough gets going, a lot of guys falter under vaious pressures that arise from having a girlfriend.

I honestly think that so many guys try to go out of their way to impress their girlfriends that sometimes they go over the board...too much of anything is just annoying.

The problem with most couples is that they get together before knowing what they want out of self, how will they ever know what they want from each other? You'd be surprised how far a couple can go when they are determined about achieving their goals, they can use eachother to feedoff, for confidence and of course for relaxation

I think girls probably make the same mistakes, in terms of impressing their partners. One has to be confident in oneself in order to be able to handel a relationship with someone else. Like you said, if you don't know what you personally want, then how can you ever expect to have a stable relationship, there is a complete lack of balance. If both partners do not know what they want, well then there is no movement forward, and both are lost.

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Posted: May 04 2006 at 08:12 PM

Quote: The_Icepick

	Quote: soviet_soldie
	coz they dont kno wat they wont and cant handle bein with 1 guy!

I think it is because most guys are so fucking insecure about themselves and their abilities...at the begining when everything is rosy, the relationship might be on the upswing, but as soon as the tough gets going, a lot of guys falter under vaious pressures that arise from having a girlfriend.

I honestly think that so many guys try to go out of their way to impress their girlfriends that sometimes they go over the board...too much of anything is just annoying.

The problem with most couples is that they get together before knowing what they want out of self, how will they ever know what they want from each other? You'd be surprised how far a couple can go when they are determined about achieving their goals, they can use eachother to feedoff, for confidence and of course for relaxation

I think girls probably make the same mistakes, in terms of impressing their partners. One has to be confident in oneself in order to be able to handel a relationship with someone else. Like you said, if you don't know what you personally want, then how can you ever expect to have a stable relationship, there is a complete lack of balance. If both partners do not know what they want, well then there is no movement forward, and both are lost.

Great executive summary =)

I agree with everything you said!

37 / Female

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Posted: May 04 2006 at 08:13 PM

mwahahhahaha, tis cuz i'm a genius, no?

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Posted: May 04 2006 at 08:15 PM

	Quote: Jan_na
	mwahahhahaha, tis cuz i'm a genius, no?

Ur an evil genius....but it is nice to see that someone thinks alike...

btw your evilness is NOTHING compared to mine...I am like Dr.Evil when it comes to EVIL LOOOL

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