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Posted: May 03 2006 at 04:34 PM

Kind of a spin-off of the other thread about cheating, but this is a more interesting question. What would you consider as being cheating? Here's an interesting one (and some people call this cheating): going to another girl with your girl problems (if you're a guy), going to another guy with guy problems (if you're a girl). There's a lot of other ones, such as getting a massage from the opposite sex, flirting while in a relationship (I met girls who despise this), etc. Let's hear your opinion.

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Posted: May 03 2006 at 04:37 PM

wow what a smart group of people, yet not one story

fuck it i think i was cheated on...i am NOT 100% sure...like she just wouldnt answer the question, could be because she didnt like the fact that i didnt trust her.

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Posted: May 03 2006 at 04:38 PM

	Quote: pizdetz
	wow what a smart group of people, yet not one story

I actually don't have a cheating story...I guess I'm lucky that way.

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Posted: May 03 2006 at 04:42 PM

My policy? you can look all you want, but don't touch. Touch does not of course include a massage from a friend (which depending on what kind is an iffy action in terms of cheating lol) or a hug or hand shake or any other form of trivial action.

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Posted: May 03 2006 at 04:47 PM

What about non-physical cheating? So like if a guy got into a fight with his girl, and gets advice about what to do from other girls?

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Posted: May 03 2006 at 04:50 PM

based on previous experince where i avoided cheating because of a gf, i will CHEAT for ever untill i get married or something Muwahahah

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Posted: May 03 2006 at 04:51 PM

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Posted: May 03 2006 at 04:53 PM

37 / Female

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Posted: May 03 2006 at 04:57 PM

	Quote: Vitali
	What about non-physical cheating? So like if a guy got into a fight with his girl, and gets advice about what to do from other girls?

well that's just plain DUMB if a girl considers that cheating. I mean my best friends are guys, and they come to me for advice all the time lol. I've never thoguht that of a boyfriend, that if he went to a female friend for advice about me that he would be cheating lol

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Posted: May 03 2006 at 05:08 PM

38 / Female

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Posted: May 03 2006 at 05:10 PM

you cant tie anyone down in this world...Everyone is entitled for their own freedom and if they chose to wonder off thats their problem, cuz once u cheat its done, and done for good! And in terms of what is cheating, i dont consider hugs and stuff a form of cheating, unless it has a deepr meaning behind it...

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Posted: May 03 2006 at 05:17 PM

I'm trying to remeber some really grey area examples. This isn't one of them, but interesting nontheless (from another place):

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	What about pornography? Men and/or women who use it for sexual pleasure without their partner? Is that cheating? I mean...if a main component of cheating involves sex...what about that? Or is that simply masturbation? And...what about fantasies with someone other than your partner? Is that infidelity, as well?

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Posted: May 03 2006 at 05:20 PM

lol a person's mind can wander. so if they have fantasies...i wouldn't call it cheating. I mean you are with who you are with right, but i'd say if you are thinking about someone else constantly, it might be a good idea to reconsider your position in your relationship. as for pronography...you're not having sex with some random women who aren't your gf. so i dont see the big deal there either lol

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Posted: May 03 2006 at 05:21 PM

39 / Female

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Posted: May 03 2006 at 06:55 PM

ok going to other girls for relationship advice it taking it too far but massages are pushing it! Unless its a cousin then its dandy!

I used to go out with my guy friends all the time without my boyfriend and if he ever sadi anyting to me he knew I'd break it off with him RIGHt away because I've known most of them for my whole life!

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Posted: May 03 2006 at 06:56 PM

	Quote: Tinkerb1tch
	ok going to other girls for relationship advice it taking it too far but massages are pushing it! Unless its a cousin then its dandy! I used to go out with my guy friends all the time without my boyfriend and if he ever sadi anyting to me he knew I'd break it off with him RIGHt away because I've known most of them for my whole life!

I just re read wha tI wrote... relationships problems wityh another girl is OK massaging is pushing it!***

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Posted: May 03 2006 at 07:51 PM

hell no its not!

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Posted: May 03 2006 at 10:20 PM

OH MY FUCKING GOD. YOU FUCKING BITCH... YOU TALKED TO YOUR FRIEND ABOUT US??? HOW COULD YOU??? AFTER ALL THIS TIME??? YOU TALKED?????OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG!!!!!!!! TAAAAALKED???? JESUS H CHRIST YOUR SUCH A DIRTY SLUT!!!

please.....

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