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Lana__
35 / Female

Posts:9
Rank: Newbie
Posted: November 11 2006 at 11:28 AM

  so, i know you will all bash me but i just need to be pointed in the right direction

basically, me and my boyfriend have been having fights non-stop, and when i finally break up with him, i feel bad and we get back togetherl. this happens ALOT, and i mean alot.

yesturday, we had one of our biggest fights.. he talked shit about my FAMILY
who basically treated him like a son.
they let him live in our house for FREE , drive the car likes its HIS, feed him, buy him clothes, gas, take him on vacations!!!!

and BOOM, he basically says my parents treated him like nothing. and that my dad cheated him in his plumbing buisness ( he got 50 % of everything)not only did he not pay for the truck, he also didnt pay for supplies, etc.

so i just want to know, am i right for flipping out or does he have any reason to be mad..

dont be stupid, and only post serious responses.
 
   
Vika_Chika
37 / Male

Posts:700
Rank: God
Posted: November 11 2006 at 12:51 PM

  i personaly think that you are the one who should be mad not him, problems between him and your dad should be solved between two of them, you shouldn't be involved at all! as i can see your family treated him very well, i see no reason for him to talk nonsense about your family. but first of all...saying things about your family is silly and immature, he is veryyyyy lucky to be accepted in your family and family business. i'm not sure how long you have been together but whenever it comes to ones family it is very serious. nobody has right so say anything about your family at all and that should be pointed out to him clearly. good luck with your "idiot" boyfriend.
 
   
faded9
37 / Female

Posts:1043
Rank: SuperGod
Posted: November 11 2006 at 12:54 PM

  you do have have a reason to be mad...thats was very uncalled from on his part
 
   
Resident_Evil
48 / Female

Posts:151
Rank: Addict
Posted: November 11 2006 at 02:04 PM

  this story sounds way too familiar to me....
but in my case i put an end to the relationship because the fights just wouldn't stop... working on it? sure...that was the choice to go.... 100 times tried working on it...but it was never good enough...did it work out? well...not really..maybe it's different for you... i can only speak from my experiences... not same exact story but somewhat on same track...
talking might solve it..but by talking i mean calm talking about stuff not screaming fighting or w.e it is that happens...so that each of u can understand both of sides...
 
   
Lana__
35 / Female

Posts:9
Rank: Newbie
Posted: November 11 2006 at 02:17 PM

 
  Quote: Resident_Evil
  this story sounds way too familiar to me....
but in my case i put an end to the relationship because the fights just wouldn't stop... working on it? sure...that was the choice to go.... 100 times tried working on it...but it was never good enough...did it work out? well...not really..maybe it's different for you... i can only speak from my experiences... not same exact story but somewhat on same track...
talking might solve it..but by talking i mean calm talking about stuff not screaming fighting or w.e it is that happens...so that each of u can understand both of sides...


you are absoulutly rite... ill talk and if that dosnt work out! and he is still saying shit... than we are not meant to ..
 
   
Youwish
38 / Male

Posts:293
Rank: God
Posted: November 11 2006 at 02:18 PM

  what does this have to do with SEX? WOMAN!
 
   
Lana__
35 / Female

Posts:9
Rank: Newbie
Posted: November 11 2006 at 02:23 PM

  SEX, AND RELATIONSHIPS

good job sweetie.
 
   
exotik_barbie
41 / Male

Posts:303
Rank: God
Posted: November 11 2006 at 03:18 PM

  How long have u been together.. with the on and off situation?
In my opionion, if he shit talks about ur family..That's the lowest disrespect anyone can do, PLUS THE fact everything ur family did for him. WHO THE FUCK deos he think he is saying shit like that?
Therefore i just have to say..you love you family, your family loves u-they are the closest to u, and if HE loved and respected YOU he would understand that saying stuff liek that will hurt u..so basically he has no respect for you-he's to comfortable with u.
He knows he can say anything and ull fight and ull forgive him and u guys will keep going.. so what u have to do is make this a big deal and tell him!! becasue by u not doing anything will only lead into bigger wors problems, even tho thats like the worst..in my opinion!
 
   
soviet_soldie
38 / Female

Posts:1278
Rank: SuperGod
Posted: November 11 2006 at 04:12 PM

  lana.. sorry to say but i dun think tis any of those kids business wat happens with u n vic...
 
   
bubblezz
44 / Female

Posts:182
Rank: Addict
Posted: November 11 2006 at 04:22 PM

 
  Quote: Lana__
  so, i know you will all bash me but i just need to be pointed in the right direction

basically, me and my boyfriend have been having fights non-stop, and when i finally break up with him, i feel bad and we get back togetherl. this happens ALOT, and i mean alot.

yesturday, we had one of our biggest fights.. he talked shit about my FAMILY
who basically treated him like a son.
they let him live in our house for FREE , drive the car likes its HIS, feed him, buy him clothes, gas, take him on vacations!!!!

and BOOM, he basically says my parents treated him like nothing. and that my dad cheated him in his plumbing buisness ( he got 50 % of everything)not only did he not pay for the truck, he also didnt pay for supplies, etc.

so i just want to know, am i right for flipping out or does he have any reason to be mad..

dont be stupid, and only post serious responses.





thats just plane n wrong move for him to do, sounds like he used ur family.... i think u have every right to be furious at him for the fact that hes an idiotic dumbshit
 
   
Resident_Evil
48 / Female

Posts:151
Rank: Addict
Posted: November 11 2006 at 05:09 PM

 
  Quote: Lana__
 
  Quote: Resident_Evil
  this story sounds way too familiar to me....
but in my case i put an end to the relationship because the fights just wouldn't stop... working on it? sure...that was the choice to go.... 100 times tried working on it...but it was never good enough...did it work out? well...not really..maybe it's different for you... i can only speak from my experiences... not same exact story but somewhat on same track...
talking might solve it..but by talking i mean calm talking about stuff not screaming fighting or w.e it is that happens...so that each of u can understand both of sides...


you are absoulutly rite... ill talk and if that dosnt work out! and he is still saying shit... than we are not meant to ..


well even if it is for you 2 to be meant for each other...it's just sometimes each one for you have your differences that just cannot be combined with one another very well... n as much as you try it doesn't work out... it's how things go...the thing is to try n try and know that you did everything that as possible to solve it..so you won't regret in the end... i hope it goes well for u... cuz for me...it went bad...:(
 
   
Resident_Evil
48 / Female

Posts:151
Rank: Addict
Posted: November 11 2006 at 05:10 PM

  n yeh... i have no words to describe the nerves i had when he brought my family into it...
 
   
Karinka
49 / Female

Posts:773
Rank: God
Posted: November 11 2006 at 05:25 PM

  svetik, u know i love u n all, but seriously its time for u to MAKUP UP ur mind!! u already tried talking it out for the past half a yr.... what came out of that??
 
   
lilrsncutie
36 / Female

Posts:19
Rank: Newbie
Posted: November 11 2006 at 06:26 PM

  baby, when he starts talking about your family then it gets personal, and that means that if anything happens between you guys he's going to blame your family, which is pathetic, you don't need stress and drama like that, so you know what, there are a million and one guys out there for you, you are still young and might i say beautiful, dump him and then see how sorry he's going to be to have ever shit talked you let alone your family, but remember NO TAKING HIM BACK
 
   
rus_allince
49 / Male

Posts:2716
Rank: SuperGod
Posted: November 11 2006 at 09:54 PM

  okay...thatsa a problem...wow...if he comes that low your really need to start thinking what eles he might make up next

he obviously dosent appriciate what your parents did for him..he is not greatful...i dont know that but it seems like that because u say he says shit bout your parents and how they dont care about him.

the first thought that came to my mind after reading your story is that he didnt mean it. maybe he is goin through changes and is confused...annd maybe he is even depressed..yes not only women can be depressed.

so when u guys were having a fight he just couldent think of anyone eles to blame..so he just said stuff bout your parents...u neeeed to have a SEARIOUS talk with him. and if he loves you...if you guys are close he will appologize...if he says that you guys should take a break..DUMP HIM!!!! im telling you..breakss lead to breakups...and you wouldent want him to break up with you. it dosent matter..but still..u dont want that.
and even though there are a million and one guys out there..it dosent mean that you have to give up one someone u love and care JUST because there r still guys out there..i hate when people say that.

maybe he is just using u..like for your parents....your parents shouldent have spoiled him so much...that i really dont get. nice poeple but still...
 
   
rus_allince
49 / Male

Posts:2716
Rank: SuperGod
Posted: November 11 2006 at 09:58 PM

  maybe he is goin through puberty # 2
 
   
xxbeautiful7
33 / Female

Posts:1003
Rank: SuperGod
Posted: November 11 2006 at 11:36 PM

  dump him...no point in continuing...if u argue that much...like you should feel sorry for him...if he doesnt appreciate all that you and ur family do for him..then there's no point in keeping him...
 
   
soviet_soldie
38 / Female

Posts:1278
Rank: SuperGod
Posted: November 12 2006 at 12:07 AM

 
  Quote: xxbeautiful7
  dump him...no point in continuing...if u argue that much...like you should feel sorry for him...if he doesnt appreciate all that you and ur family do for him..then there's no point in keeping him...

stfu u dunno shit and ure upenin ur dum lil mouth.. stupid kid
 
   
xxbeautiful7
33 / Female

Posts:1003
Rank: SuperGod
Posted: November 12 2006 at 12:12 AM

 
  Quote: soviet_soldie
 
  Quote: xxbeautiful7
  dump him...no point in continuing...if u argue that much...like you should feel sorry for him...if he doesnt appreciate all that you and ur family do for him..then there's no point in keeping him...

stfu u dunno shit and ure upenin ur dum lil mouth.. stupid kid


ok y wont u shut up! ur probably no fkn better than her boyfriend...
 
   
rus_allince
49 / Male

Posts:2716
Rank: SuperGod
Posted: November 12 2006 at 12:42 AM

  yeh roma..shut up...her ass is mine
 
 
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