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44 / Female

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Posted: November 02 2006 at 05:28 PM

i just lost someone i just realized im startin to have feelings for again...and its not fair because its my fault....we dated, broke up...seen other people and ive been startin to push him away....and evenntually he did, he got tired of chasing me down...and stupid me, its called karma...now i realized what i've missed out on....

theres no need to tell me im too young for this shit, because everyones young and learn off thier own mistakes, but now im hurt....

i tried e-mailing, but he was rude, so i wanted to call him...and all the sudden i break in tears and i have goosebumps allover my arms...i put myself together, and he wouldnt pick up...i wont chase him down, i ondt want to lower myself either....

but, i dont know, what should i do, please help

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Posted: November 02 2006 at 05:41 PM

look,ive been in that kind of a situation. And dont listen to people who tell you that you r too young..cuz people that r even a year older then you would be saying..ho shut the fuck up ur only 15..but im sure that guys and girls felt pain and liked someone even at a earlier age. What you should do,is talk to him...have a searious talk,express your feelings..and be nice,dont over do it..dont show alot of emotion,becuase when you do, the guy thinks that he can play with you Tom and Jerry...and thats not good.
so what i would sugest,is just talkt o him in a calm voice,tell how u feel..and give him a limit..tell him that this is it,your tired of thinking bout him everyday,and you cant do anything bout it. tell him that you r at a point where you have to decide...tell him that its your only chance for him to get you,and when he changes his mind..you wont be avaliable for him.

i hope you guys will be together and everything will work out,but b4 rejecting some one that you dont think u have strong feelings for,you should think of the qoncequences...i dont know if i spelled that right but w.e...

44 / Female

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Posted: November 02 2006 at 05:44 PM

awwwh sweety, thank you so much, no i doubt we'll go out ever again, but i dont want to end it liek that....i will call one more time, he wont pick up theni wont talk to him ever again, and thats how its gonna be because, im not gonna lower myself

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Posted: November 02 2006 at 05:52 PM

ooknow see...ur doin the wrong thing....write him an email and be a bitch...and dont call him..thats like the first mistake..its just gonna boost up his confidence and is gonna think ur lowering urself for him,and he will be happy that you think he is so important to you.....you need to be a bitch but dont over do it...u know what i mean? like be mean...but dont be REALLY MEAN!!! i dont know how to explain it in other words...but i hope you understand what im saying.

just wait a couple of days,he needs to think...i bet he is really confused right now.

44 / Female

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Posted: November 02 2006 at 05:58 PM

no, ill let it go.....im a strong a girl its not very often i cry because of a guy....i usually hold emotions inside of myself....and if thats how were done, then be it.....it wont happen over night but ill pull through.....he was just different form other guys, and im sure i can still do better and move on lika strong motherfucker.....

im not very good witht he bitc this, im not a bitch ever to anyone, i can handle my problems maturly without acting like a lil whore in gr.6

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Posted: November 02 2006 at 06:02 PM

you know what? the best and solid way is just to call him over for a cup of coffee, and talk, like NORMAL human beings, dont let anything go, ive had the same problem, it only takes one phone call, and trust me, if hes a person, he would listen to everything you have to say, tell him everything straight up, go over problems, and such. dont give up just like that. i hate giving up, it feels like i just lost. in what? doesnt matter.
Dont be silly, and call him, if you really miss him.

44 / Female

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Posted: November 02 2006 at 06:04 PM

like i said
i put myself together....and i dialed his number then bust into taers n had goosebumps allover myself and obviously, he didnt pick up....i'll try one more time to call him up and let everything out, but if he doesnt pick again on purpose than i wont chase him down, because i dont to lower myself for himm

37 / Female

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Posted: November 02 2006 at 06:07 PM

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Posted: November 02 2006 at 06:08 PM

your not lowering anything, dont think that everybody is a fucken bastard, if hes a good guy, hell be happy to hear from you, and probably forget about the thing... it doesnt happen in 20 minutes, it takes time, a week, maybe even 3, it all depends on you guys

44 / Female

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Posted: November 02 2006 at 06:10 PM

but i wont chase him down....

plus im not expecting to start dating him again even if he wanted to all of the sudden i got nothing to give anymore, honestly...i cant like like him the way i didnt before anymore...as long as if i tellh im im sorry for pushing him away from me and as logn as we stay good friends, i'll be totally fine

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Posted: November 02 2006 at 06:13 PM

so tell him that, im sure hell understand.

44 / Female

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Posted: November 02 2006 at 06:14 PM

ill try if he picks his phone up one last time, once again, im not gonna chase him down 24/7

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Posted: November 02 2006 at 06:16 PM

but you do want to solve all the problems between you and him, no?

44 / Female

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Posted: November 02 2006 at 06:19 PM

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Posted: November 02 2006 at 06:22 PM

so if he doesnt today, call him in two days, and if he doesnt answer than, you could call him in a week, whenever youre not busy, cause people need answers, they dont need to raise questions, questions are bad, thats why i analize alot, and its good....
i went off topic kinda, but u know wat i mean, rofl

44 / Female

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Posted: November 02 2006 at 06:23 PM

your right i guess...but u know when someone over time u realize to desrve better and that they hurt you and dont wanan be so much closer or near them....like you have to recover

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Posted: November 02 2006 at 06:27 PM

its all a game man, cause if you show up infront of his door right about now, with a pack of condoms....
i think hell want to be near you, very very near you...

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Posted: November 02 2006 at 06:28 PM

thats why its best if you just talk to him somehow, keep a straight up convo, dont go in circles too much, dont confuse anyone, jsut keep giving answers, and demands

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Posted: November 02 2006 at 07:10 PM

Listen to roman, he knows his shit!

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Posted: November 02 2006 at 07:45 PM

	Quote: romaa
	its all a game man, cause if you show up infront of his door right about now, with a pack of condoms.... i think hell want to be near you, very very near you...

thats funny actually... that actually did kind of happen

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