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39 / Female

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Posted: June 10 2006 at 09:15 AM

My little sister was going out with a guy for about 6 months all of a sudden one day he stopped hugging her and starts to chill with his friends more. So she asks him whats wrong and he keeps denying that anthing is wrong.

So any ways He has this friend whos a REALLY big slut bag and she wants him and shes always with him trying to find a way in somehow. One day her boyfriend tells her that he needs time to think and that he feels like hes losing feeling for my sister and wants to take a break. He tells her that he still loves her but that he'll call her when hes ready.

What do you think is happening here??

Last edited by Tinkerb1tch on June 10, 2006 a 9:15 AM

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Posted: June 10 2006 at 09:26 AM

Well...Im sorta goin through the same thing, Things were great with my and my girlfriend untill a few dayz ago when my Ex called and said she's still in love with me...shit like that really fucks around with a guys head. Although my situation is a little different considering yesterday i caught my girl liein to me and i think she is cheatin on me....but to answer your question he is def tryin to decide who he wants to be with, and breaks usually aint a good thing so tell your sister to ether get back together with him now, or forget about it

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Posted: June 10 2006 at 09:27 AM

i think he wants to b with that slut bag ...for a whille
then when he feels like he is missing someone...someone NORMAL
then he will call her
a guy can still love someone but have some lust for other giri
thats my opinion
but the thing is...if i was in your sisters shoes..i wouldent even like...talk to him since i would know that he was hanging out with her....and has some feelingz for her..wich is jus lust.
because if i would still talk and b with him..he will do that again...like cuz he did that once and she fell for it..so why dont i do it again...

(he is an ass that needs to b spanked)

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Posted: June 10 2006 at 09:28 AM

*why wouldent he do that again...he definatl;ey can....unless he is not stupid

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Posted: June 10 2006 at 09:36 AM

Hey girlz i need an honest opinion and it meanz alot comin from you guys. Ok this is what happen.... My girl said she was at co-op wednesday right....yesterday i found out she got fired cause she hasnt been goin......so i asked her where she was wednesday and she said she 4got(yeah right...), anyways then she tells me that she was out lookin 4 a job at lawrence square(How come you didnt mention lookin for a job before...), and then at the end of it all shes like ya i was with alex, what do you think?

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Posted: June 10 2006 at 11:01 AM

tinker: breaks always put a relationship in a weird and messed up state. As far as your sis is concerned, she is now single and available, so is that guy. Should he want to get back together, your sis has to think long and hard...does she want to be the go-to girl when he has no one better and be left on the sidelines when this guy feels like screwing around with someone else?

I know it sounds somewhat harsh, but, in my expirience, that's is exactly what happens. This holds true for both girls and guys that want to "take a break" to be with someone else.

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Posted: June 10 2006 at 11:20 AM

i agree with vitali 100%
and um... KavKazi89 .... lol dude i dunno what to tell u .. havent u ever talked to a girl that has a bf but u like eachother and shed like go outta her ways and lie to her bf to see you .. well pretty much that happened .. and at the end u presured her so much that she said alex... (whoever that is) wanted to see how ud take it .. but seriously if they lie once they are gonna keep lying .... especially about things like this .. i say .. wait till u do something with her next time ( sexual) then go near her face ur ur cock make sure its hard and slap her really good so u hear the slap ..... put ur pants up and bounce and the next day .. tell her u forgot about what happened the day before

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Posted: June 10 2006 at 11:28 AM

ahahaha Daniel i like the way you think bro, Thanks 4 the Tip

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Posted: June 10 2006 at 11:59 AM

i have done that .. but she wasnt my gf.. it was so girl ... i slapped her on the forehead ... she looked up so dumb and she had her mouth open .... i laughed and bounced ( shh dont tell anyone)

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Posted: June 10 2006 at 12:15 PM

ahahaha your secrets safe with me bro, that cold hearted yet so fair

37 / Female

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Posted: June 10 2006 at 12:24 PM

well, i think first of all it's important to know how old this boy and your sister are. The reason for this is simple, different age, different morals.

It could be that he needs is time apart to actually think, and it could be that he needs time apart so its not concidered cheating.

Personally i think your sister needs to talk to him and figure it out. I cannot stress how many times i've seen a relationship go into shatters because the two (or three **rolls eyes**) people invovled did not have a strong line of communication.

I have to agree with Vitali in the sense that, if he does want to get back together, she needs to really think about what she wants...she needs to think about why the break occured in the first place. If he was just looking for some action else where, then she really should not get back together with him, that suggests that it could very well happen again, pressure would be put on her, and ultimately she would be the "go-to girl".

But then everyone makes mistakes...depends on what he says and the situation too. every case is individual, but from a generalizing standpoint, it does seem the way vitali said it.

37 / Female

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Posted: June 10 2006 at 12:25 PM

wow...i wrote a whole story for you lol.

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Posted: June 10 2006 at 02:05 PM

the explanation is actually very simple...that guy is a prostitute

39 / Female

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Posted: June 10 2006 at 02:13 PM

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Posted: June 10 2006 at 02:42 PM

Wow...she is very gorgeous..
but yeah i agree with every opinion here
i think she should talk to him...and they both need to come to a conclusion...
and like Vitali said..i dont think she wants to b the girl that can and will satisfy him when ever he dosent have anyone better...bcuz thats jus disrespectful...

39 / Female

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Posted: June 10 2006 at 02:55 PM

Shes been waiting by the phone for him to call. So on last night I cancelled my plans and brought her to a movie and today she came to work with me and I did her hair, bought her some new hairclips and a new nail polish colour that I saw her eyeing but shes still moosh!

I swear if I see this kid I'm going to kill him.

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Posted: June 10 2006 at 02:59 PM

Omg having lil sisterz is such a drag...Minez is going to high school next year ahahaha Lotta Little Kidz to rob and beat up

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Posted: June 10 2006 at 04:25 PM

maybe she gave it up to him and now he doesnt care ... he got wat he wanted and he wants out

39 / Female

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Posted: June 10 2006 at 04:30 PM

	Quote: daniel
	maybe she gave it up to him and now he doesnt care ...he got wat he wanted and he wants out

No trust me my little sister tells me everything they havn't done it.

He probably got tired of waiting and went for the first whore he knew he could get it from.

37 / Female

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Posted: June 10 2006 at 04:43 PM

hes a chaser, the minute u stop running he'll run right past u. he wants something he thinks he can win, never the prize hes already got.

love this quote and it kinda goes with this too

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