Quote: Vitali   tinker: breaks always put a relationship in a weird and messed up state. As far as your sis is concerned, she is now single and available, so is that guy. Should he want to get back together, your sis has to think long and hard...does she want to be the go-to girl when he has no one better and be left on the sidelines when this guy feels like screwing around with someone else? I know it sounds somewhat harsh, but, in my expirience, that's is exactly what happens. This holds true for both girls and guys that want to "take a break" to be with someone else. See but thats EXACTLY what I've been telling her but hes her first real boyfriend and she really likes him so no matter what I tell her shes going to keep moping around the house. I never liked him even the first time I met him but she did so I never said anything. Shea a GORGEOUS girl so I know that she can have another boyfriend again in no time but shes hung up on him. << thats her (but an old pic) I don't have any recent ones on my photobucket but now she looks older and shes even more beautiful.