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Posted: August 12 2006 at 01:12 AM

i want everybody to experience however do you actually expect to marry the person you date when you are 16?? something is bound to go wrong and you will fight and never talk to the person you love ever again.....in canada people dont get married till there atleast 25 and older.......so at this age you should date people....break up....cry about it and move on because if you marry the first person you love...thats a divorce waiting to happen, thats why everyone should experience love now and figure out there mistakes..without a doubt one day you will find someone else to get attached too.

36 / Female

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Posted: August 12 2006 at 01:18 AM

if u think u love someone and plan to marry that person, take a break from them for a couple months to date around and see what's out there. it will help u realize that there's no one better out there than that one person and u wont regret it later on in the marraige. or it can help put your life in perspective and you may realize your not ready for marriage yet and think there's still someone out there who's more compatable with you.

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Posted: August 12 2006 at 01:20 AM

words of wisdom are over me

37 / Female

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Posted: August 12 2006 at 01:21 AM

i agree with masha

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Posted: August 12 2006 at 01:23 AM

ye obviously at this age you wont find anyone better when you love that person but when your 17 like i am....i dont plan to get married till im atleast 25 so that means im gonna have to date my gf for 8 more years atleast....which is just ridiculous....so ye at this age love is different than love adults who have children have or adults that are 30 have

48 / Female

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Posted: August 12 2006 at 01:25 AM

what if that person that loves u and that u've been going out with for a really long time sais they can't find neone better than u and no matter what happends they will never be able to find someone else because no1 is going to be like u...n then u start to think that u are too young to be with the same person for such a long time but for them everything seems normal and they are happy to be that "one couple" ... since highskool... that ends up together for the rest of their life...deep inside u know too that they are uniq because u've been with others n they cannot match u the way "he" does but then again...couldn't it just be that u got used to him n maybe u can't let go?

36 / Female

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Posted: August 12 2006 at 01:25 AM

ok i didnt understand half of what u just said...but w.e i did understand, i dont agree with

36 / Female

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Posted: August 12 2006 at 01:26 AM

i was talking about heda89

48 / Female

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Posted: August 12 2006 at 01:26 AM

lol...there's nuttin to agree with...it was a qtion!

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Posted: August 12 2006 at 01:26 AM

	Quote: heda89
	ye obviously at this age you wont find anyone better when you love that person but when your 17 like i am....i dont plan to get married till im atleast 25 so that means im gonna have to date my gf for 8 more years atleast....which is just ridiculous....so ye at this age love is different than love adults who have children have or adults that are 30 have

heda man... i LOVE you.

48 / Female

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Posted: August 12 2006 at 01:27 AM

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Posted: August 12 2006 at 01:28 AM

if you dont want to marry a person....you dont love them i think.......and if you dont plan to marry you shouldnt date them and almost for sure the girl would dump you if you tell her that......but honestly its ridiculously hard to get together with someone at this age and stay with them the rest of your life...........were young stupid and we want other things in our lives at this age than when were adults

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Posted: August 12 2006 at 01:29 AM

like lots of sex and booze!

48 / Female

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Posted: August 12 2006 at 01:30 AM

i agree that we want diff things now than when we are adults... but then what r u supposed to do? just date random girl n just not pay ne feelings in the relationship bczu u expect to be with someone else ina few months/weeks?

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Posted: August 12 2006 at 01:33 AM

exactly i dont expect to do that.....which is why i dont have a gf even though sometimes i want one....i dont think i would ever dump her but guaranteed she will dump me because girls here are just like that

36 / Female

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Posted: August 12 2006 at 01:34 AM

Quote: Resident_Evil

what if that person that loves u and that u've been going out with for a really long time sais they can't find neone better than u and no matter what happends they will never be able to find someone else because no1 is going to be like u...n then u start to think that u are too young to be with the same person for such a long time but for them everything seems normal and they are happy to be that "one couple" ... since highskool... that ends up together for the rest of their life...deep inside u know too that they are uniq because u've been with others n they cannot match u the way "he" does but then again...couldn't it just be that u got used to him n maybe u can't let go?

Love comes in different forms, at different times in our lives. And you're right, being dependant and comfortable with someone plays a huge role on today's relationships. The main cause of this is being infatuated at a young age. And I'm saying infatuated cuz most of u little boys and girls don't even now what love feels like. You assume.

That's why it's so important, for girls especially, to be self dependant, and have your own life outside of your relationship. Girls that start revolving their lives around their boyfriends, fiances, husbands, or w.e., are the ones who get fucked over in the end. And I'm sure most of you know this cuz you've experienced it in the past. Difference is, some learn from it and some don't.

36 / Female

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Posted: August 12 2006 at 01:37 AM

The result is you forget about your friends, and everything you used to do before the relationship...and when its over you have nothing left and you dont know what to do with yourself.

48 / Female

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Posted: August 12 2006 at 01:38 AM

i guess most things u learn it's from own experiences...n it's actually true...at some point in a relationship (maybe this only happen to me lol) u do end up revolving ur life around the bf and u think that if they are not there later in ur life u'r gonan end up alone...with no friends and nutting to do..but then once u grow older...u make friends...u meet people and see how world changes u realise u should let go just a lil of what u keep so close ( not for good) but just to loosen up a bit n enjoy it..not suffocate !

48 / Female

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Posted: August 12 2006 at 01:39 AM

	Quote: masha
	The result is you forget about your friends, and everything you used to do before the relationship...and when its over you have nothing left and you dont know what to do with yourself.

it's very true...been there! not a great feeling..but fortuantely got out of the mess

not a good feeling...

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Posted: August 12 2006 at 01:41 AM

we'll continue this conversation later because i g2g...lol......bf's and gf's ruin frendships and lives....honestly its not worth it when you dont have one but it is worth it when you do

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