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Tinkerb1tch

39 / Female

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Posted: July 25 2006 at 03:04 PM

Quote: AustralianGQ

ur telling me in attracted to the wrong girls, shoudl i move to another country or something b/c it seems that i meet a wide varity of females and their all the same, im not quite sure how u can im attracted to the wrong females, when they are all around...then perhaps females should stop acting like a bitch or a whore and guys wont ligitamitaely have a reason to call u one...im not going for females who dress slutty, i hate girls like that and i would never talk to a female like that, b/c it screams attention whore and a lack of self respect.

ladies please keep ur clothing on, i dont wanna see it. it seems to me that knowing myself for 18 years i love a female who has morals and self respect and knows how to treat a guy and females lie and cheat and are decietful and dont make their true intentions clear and play guys for a fool and use them and then toss them away and get bored easily and cant make up their mind....its not my fault every female i meet is like that, not my fault ur all bitches and whores...

b/c as u have said all the females i go for are like that, so u must be all the same? quiet girls, i wish i could meet a quiet, sweet, sensitive one...ive met a few like that and they were the same too. its the friggin library, its not a place to pick up ppl and besides that, i would never do it..im not gonna go up to a female, 1 im shy and quiet myself and 2 i dont wanna be a rude typical male pig and go hit on females, i have more respect for females then to go up to them in a library or in a mall, wherever and do that kinda thing...if u are interested, why cant u go up to me...i think when i walk down the street, i scream single, pathetic loser...u come up to me, u should know im single....

Okay sweetie #1 you seem like a very hard person to please. Everyone has their faults and you seem to be looking for something that no one can offer (perfection). I also think you have some issues because of the way you've been brought up. Not that your parents did a shitty job because I don't know anything about your life but you said, "i love a female who has morals and self respect and knows how to treat a guy and females lie and cheat and are decietful and dont make their true intentions clear and play guys for a fool and use them and then toss them away and get bored easily and cant make up their mind....its not my fault every female i meet is like that, not my fault ur all bitches and whores..." You're blaming girls for being that way when there are tons of guys who I know that are like that and also tons of girls who are like that because of the way a guy has treated them.

You can't generalize that way. And people only hate something when you don't understand it.. you seem to hate girls more than anyone else I've ever known. I've had guys fuck me over TOONS of times from catching them cheating to being stalked to almost getting killed by one of them because he was that much of a fucking psycho. But I don't go around telling people that I hate all guys and they're all jealous, cheating dogs who just want pussy.

One more thing... you claim not to like girls who show skin or that are confident but you want a girl to walk up to you and start talking to you? How does that make sense? Clearly if shes shy she wouldn't have the guts to say hi to you. And even if she did work them up you'd just shoot her down for being a straight forward typical "whore-bitch". i think you should sit down with yourself. Hang your stubbornness on the wall and think about whatever the hell it is you want in a girl because you're contradicting yourself like crazy!

diesel_daniel

38 / Male

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Posted: July 25 2006 at 03:25 PM

AMEN! the fuckin master has spokennn!! thise forum is over.. thanx all for viewing itt!

AustralianGQ

37 / Male

Posts:217
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Posted: July 25 2006 at 04:07 PM

Quote: Jan_na

	Quote: diesel_daniel
	this is a WAR cant we all just get laid in peaceee

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAA

as for the whole issue on trying to change a bad boy or what not...i agree with lexxie on what it is she's looking for.

the reality is...you do need a balance, its not so much about changing a bad boy, its about not getting sick of a good boy. if its all romantic, and constantly the same and sweet, eventually it gets boring. thats not to say that we need guys to be idiots and assholes to keep it interesting, but i mean think about it, guys dont like it when girls stick to them like glue and dont give them their space, well girls are the same way.

and this topic is getting old...we're all talking to circles at this point

no thats not true at all. i would love to have a agirl who is clingy, who calls me, emails me, wants to be with me all the time, i would love that...if she wants her space, i respect that but as for me, i wouldnt mind a clingy girl at all. why does it get boring if he treats u really good and is always romantic and sweet and takes u out, i dont get it, i honestly dont?

AustralianGQ

37 / Male

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Posted: July 25 2006 at 04:15 PM

Quote: Tinkerb1tch

[quote=AustralianGQ]
Okay sweetie #1 you seem like a very hard person to please. Everyone has their faults and you seem to be looking for something that no one can offer (perfection). I also think you have some issues because of the way you've been brought up. Not that your parents did a shitty job because I don't know anything about your life but you said, "i love a female who has morals and self respect and knows how to treat a guy and females lie and cheat and are decietful and dont make their true intentions clear and play guys for a fool and use them and then toss them away and get bored easily and cant make up their mind....its not my fault every female i meet is like that, not my fault ur all bitches and whores..." You're blaming girls for being that way when there are tons of guys who I know that are like that and also tons of girls who are like that because of the way a guy has treated them.

You can't generalize that way. And people only hate something when you don't understand it.. you seem to hate girls more than anyone else I've ever known. I've had guys fuck me over TOONS of times from catching them cheating to being stalked to almost getting killed by one of them because he was that much of a fucking psycho. But I don't go around telling people that I hate all guys and they're all jealous, cheating dogs who just want pussy.

One more thing... you claim not to like girls who show skin or that are confident but you want a girl to walk up to you and start talking to you? How does that make sense? Clearly if shes shy she wouldn't have the guts to say hi to you. And even if she did work them up you'd just shoot her down for being a straight forward typical "whore-bitch". i think you should sit down with yourself. Hang your stubbornness on the wall and think about whatever the hell it is you want in a girl because you're contradicting yourself like crazy!

im honestly not, all i ask for is a girl who will treat me good and wants the same things in a relationship and in life as i do...i dont think thats too much as ask. no im not looking for perfection im looking for a decent girl and ur almost telling me it doesnt exist....well i totally agree, ive said several times now that 95% of guys are assholes, i know this...it makes anyone pretty pathetic to mistreat someone just b/c they have ben treated crappy in the past. as ive stated ive been treated like crap by all the girls ive met and yet i still give every girl i meet 100% and i treat her really good, so thats not excuse to treat someone bad, b/c some other loser treated u bad before.

i dont hate females, i repsect and admire females as long as ur a good person and u live a good life, i hate those girls who have treated me bad or another guy bad when hes done nothing wrong...if u havent done anything wrong and ur a good person, i like u. again ur just making about facts or god knows what, b/c ive never said that all females were the same or that i hated all of them. their is a fine line between showing skin and being trashy and skanky and over doing it. why would i shoot her down? she came up to me, shes polite and wants to talk. so lets do that, lets talk, go out for a coffee and get to know eachother...i know what i want in a girl, im not stbborn, i dont see how i am and i dont see how ive contradicted myself at all, u are assuming that i am b/c obviously im not explaining every lil detail, well now i am for u to clear things up.

soviet_soldie

40 / Female

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Posted: July 25 2006 at 04:20 PM

k faggot shut ta fuck up alrdy !

AustralianGQ

37 / Male

Posts:217
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Posted: July 25 2006 at 04:40 PM

	Quote: soviet_soldie
	k faggot shut ta fuck up alrdy !

its my topic, dont like it? then leave, no one is forcing u to stay, yet u come on here and talk shit to ppl for what, to come off looking cool?

soviet_soldie

40 / Female

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Posted: July 25 2006 at 04:57 PM

i just talkms hit to u.. coz ure a fag

soviet_soldie

40 / Female

Posts:1278
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Posted: July 25 2006 at 04:57 PM

	Quote: soviet_soldie
	i just talkms hit to u.. coz ure a fag

talk shit*

AustralianGQ

37 / Male

Posts:217
Rank: God
Posted: July 25 2006 at 05:27 PM

	Quote: soviet_soldie
	i just talkms hit to u.. coz ure a fag

ah i see ignorance is bliss....

True_vanilla

37 / Male

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Posted: July 25 2006 at 07:23 PM

leave the fucking guy alone he is jsut trying to prove a fucking point, why pick on the australian?

AustralianGQ

37 / Male

Posts:217
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Posted: July 25 2006 at 07:37 PM

why not? hes a ignorant ass, he just wants to talk shit on the net and look cool....

let him do it...i dont care. i know i have a valid point about females

foxie_y

37 / Female

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Rank: Newbie
Posted: July 25 2006 at 11:42 PM

it's because women like a guy who knows what he's doing, who will lead the relationship in a way that's exciting yet unpredictable; they want someone who has had EXPERIENCE and that happens to usually be the bad guys.

and yeah, lots of girls think they can change a person and have the movie-romance taken from "a walk to remember" haha.

and i guess most good guys aren't physically attracting to women.. and if they are, they're taken or gay.
(sorry but it's true)

True_vanilla

37 / Male

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Posted: July 25 2006 at 11:44 PM

hey iam a good guy, am i not attractive?

AustralianGQ

37 / Male

Posts:217
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Posted: July 26 2006 at 08:50 AM

Quote: foxie_y

so why do woman go on and on about how they want equal rights and to be free, they want to be in control and be able to make their choices, not have a guy do everything for her and make all her choices for her in the relationdhip...woman are the ones who contradict themselves...

besides that i know what im doing, ive met many girls, i got expereicne, i like to take the lead and control things b/c lords knows a female cant, they dont know how to....exciting yet unpredictable, i cant do that too, surprise her with gifts or take her places she wouldnt expect etc...the bad boys only experience is just being an asshole, they dont have any relationship experience, not the way it should be and woman confuse this. no but u see in a walk to rememeber, he was never a bad boy, he was always the good guy, who went down a wrong path, ive been their too, im still their. but he was a nice guy who got lost and needed help and direction in his life, he still treated every girl he met amazing, he just had a self confidence issue with himself...

im not goodlooking, i dont have a nice body? im certainly not taken lol....

diesel_daniel

38 / Male

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Posted: July 26 2006 at 12:52 PM

honestly broo now ur making me sick with this stupid thread its going around and around same pointz being thrown around.. go fuckin write a novel with a box of kleenex beside u.. you honestly think but saying all this shit negative towardz girlz.. that ur the attractive guy u make urself out too bed..masybe if u loosen upp and stopped looking for exacvtly what you want you would get a girl girl.. if your gonna be stuckup lil tighass and only focus on one type of girl then dont be sad when ur single all ur life..

AustralianGQ

37 / Male

Posts:217
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Posted: July 26 2006 at 03:32 PM

maybe u should stop posting in my topic and running ur mouth like ur cool or something then and i suggest u work on ur grammar as well....ur comments are also inaccurate...try again!

diesel_daniel

38 / Male

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Posted: July 26 2006 at 06:20 PM

who the fuck cares about grammer face it dude ur a 18 year oldd LOSER!! like you honestly care any girl would actually give a fuck what you havew to say.. and i never wanna try to be kool im sorry have we graduated gr 9 yet? ur a LOSER! grow some fuckin ballz and be a real man not a lil pussy who sitz on fourmz and cryz about his past and how he cant find a pretty girl for himselfff

AustralianGQ

37 / Male

Posts:217
Rank: God
Posted: July 26 2006 at 07:50 PM

im hardly crying over such a simple matter as this...im just waiting for a decent explanation as to why females act the way they do....i figured that would of been covered within 1 page yet here we are on number 6....

bambina

40 / Female

Posts:15
Rank: Newbie
Posted: July 26 2006 at 08:10 PM

	Quote: AustralianGQ
	im hardly crying over such a simple matter as this...im just waiting for a decent explanation as to why females act the way they do....i figured that would of been covered within 1 page yet here we are on number 6....

You'll get an answer to your question when girls get an answer as to why a lot of guys are assholes...in otherwords, you won't get an answer, it's not something you can explain. People have different reasons for acting the way they do, stop complaining about it and just go out and find a girl. If she's not right then c'est la vie. You're only 18 you shouldn't be in any rush to be in a serious relationship, they're not gonna last at this age anyways. So stop trying to grow up faster than you have to. Enjoy being young and single

deleted

50 / Male

Posts:0
Rank: Slave
Posted: July 26 2006 at 08:47 PM

ok man, let me tell you something. You're a fkn loser, you have to get laid, honestly...

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