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Posted: April 30 2006 at 05:28 PM

When going out a date to dinner... Who should pay the bill? The Guy......The Girl..... or do you go dutch and split it?

36 / Female

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Posted: April 30 2006 at 05:34 PM

i like to split it. call me weird but whenever a guy pays for me, i feel like he expects me to sleep with him, so i like to balance it out somehow so no mixed messages are sent.

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Posted: April 30 2006 at 05:35 PM

the guy should always pay well that is the way i got rasied soo when i my girl is with me there is no way she is gonna take out her wallet to payy

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Posted: April 30 2006 at 05:44 PM

yea i never let a girl pay, even when she offers money for round two.

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Posted: April 30 2006 at 05:58 PM

sicne my ex ive been saving so much money hahah

38 / Female

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Posted: April 30 2006 at 05:59 PM

I usually taker the bill before he can get his hands on it... I don't mind paying but if hes gonna be a mooch I push him to the curve

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Posted: April 30 2006 at 06:05 PM

URR VIOLENT IF I WAS GOING OUT WITH U U WOULD NEVER GET THE BILL HAHA I WILL ALWAYS PAY I TELL TAHT TO THE GIRL BEFORE IAM GONNA GO OUT WITH HER SO SHE KNOWS

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Posted: April 30 2006 at 06:27 PM

Naturally the woman!

during the date she must scratch my back, clean my shit, cook - (and i dont mean fries) and follow orders - unless were doing the submissive dominatrix thing but thats another issue...

this feminism deal is getting out of hand with the man providing for the woman.

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Posted: April 30 2006 at 06:28 PM

oh yea, and Fuck the Dutch.

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Posted: April 30 2006 at 06:30 PM

hahaha i don't mind paying for the girl it makes me feel better all guys should pay but sometimes is okey for the girl to pay i think the best way is if in our age girl pay for them self and guys do the same cause none of us make alot of money to be able to pay also this is nothamerican thing go to europe and u see most girl pay in iceland girls are expected to pay

38 / Female

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Posted: April 30 2006 at 06:34 PM

I went out with a moocher UGH!

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Posted: April 30 2006 at 06:37 PM

	Quote: BOBBY
	hahaha i don't mind paying for the girl it makes me feel better all guys should pay but sometimes is okey for the girl to pay i think the best way is if in our age girl pay for them self and guys do the same cause none of us make alot of money to be able to pay also this is nothamerican thing go to europe and u see most girl pay in iceland girls are expected to pay

finally a kid with smart parents!!

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Posted: April 30 2006 at 06:54 PM

parents what does my rest have to do with this

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Posted: April 30 2006 at 07:06 PM

On a first date, I say the guy should pay as an act of symbolism. After that, it really depends on the girl. I usually just do 50-50, but every once in a while, the guy should still take the girl out at his expense.

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Posted: April 30 2006 at 07:07 PM

	Quote: touchmybikini
	i like to split it. call me weird but whenever a guy pays for me, i feel like he expects me to sleep with him, so i like to balance it out somehow so no mixed messages are sent.

As for expectations, any guy that "expects" is a loser. A (decent) guy knows that it takes more than buying a (decent) girl dinner or a round of drinks to get her to sleep with him.

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Posted: April 30 2006 at 07:08 PM

i think if the guy pays for everything the girl should buy presents for the guy haha so kinda it evens outt

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Posted: April 30 2006 at 07:14 PM

are you crazy i would never let a girl pay for me...weak or cheap men let their women pay, i was raised to never let my girl to even take out a penny

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Posted: April 30 2006 at 07:15 PM

same i alwys pay iam just giving some sugustions

if my dad ever finds out that i didn't pay for the girl ima dead

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Posted: April 30 2006 at 07:19 PM

haha thats old fashioned parents that we have

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Posted: April 30 2006 at 07:21 PM

	Quote: BOBBY
	if my dad ever finds out that i didn't pay for the girl ima dead

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