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Posted: May 13 2006 at 10:43 AM

When u guys have breakups, how do u cope with it? And please be serious.

37 / Female

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Posted: May 13 2006 at 10:54 AM

Hmm, depends on with who, and how I feel/felt about them.

If I felt strongly about the person then I would obviously be upset, force myself to go out with my friends (who would have been dragging me out regardless at this point lol) and just I don�t know, give myself a week, two max, to feel sorry for myself (eww...ok, wayyy less than two weeks) and then start to get over it, I mean it's hard no shit...sometimes harder than others, especially when I�m the one that instigates the breakup and I know that I�ve hurt someone...hate that feeling...usually try to stay friends, that always helps me, knowing that things between us are still "okay" in a sense

38 / Female

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Posted: May 13 2006 at 11:06 AM

heh as pathetic as it sounds i never quite got over a certain someone, its been too long like 2 years...but i just cant. other guys i got over after a few weeks, i just got caught up with other bussiness and tried to get my mind off of the fact that im no longer together with that person...its hard, but its possible, i never got over the other one because its never fully over between us. its on and off.

37 / Female

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Posted: May 13 2006 at 11:11 AM

Silly maria, of course it would be difficult to get over if its on and off...i mean you CAN'T get over that person if there is nothing to get over yet. The only time you can "deal" with it is when it's completely and truely over. Screw him for playing with your head (i'm assuming it is his fault...do not ruin my moment of thunder and triumph!)

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Posted: May 13 2006 at 11:16 AM

are these BAD breakups ur guys are talking about? Like fights and what not?

37 / Female

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Posted: May 13 2006 at 11:25 AM

um...just breakups in general. If it were a fight, i'd probably be wayyy to heated at first to care that it was a breakup, i mean the anger would validate it. But i forgive easily, it's just a matter of analyzing it in my head. I guess if you can't do anything about it, just get ove it...there will be other relationships lol

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Posted: May 13 2006 at 11:29 AM

	Quote: Jan_na
	um...just breakups in general. If it were a fight, i'd probably be wayyy to heated at first to care that it was a breakup, i mean the anger would validate it. But i forgive easily, it's just a matter of analyzing it in my head. I guess if you can't do anything about it, just get ove it...there will be other relationships lol

True. Kinda hard to be strong and move on if u still care about the person no? Fights make it easier to move on for sure.

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Posted: May 13 2006 at 11:32 AM

yeah it is hard, of course it is, but if there is no hope of getting back together then you have to force yourself to move on. You can't just sit in limbo forever right? So give yourself some time to breathe and then force yourself to get moving, i'm not saying finding someone new, i'm saying accepting the fact that you have to get over it eventually...it's always more complicated than that lol i know.

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