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True_vanilla
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Posted: October 08 2006 at 03:01 PM

  It is better to be feared than loved, if you cannot be both -Niccolo Makiavelli

DISCUSS!!!
 
   
x__que_linda
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Posted: October 08 2006 at 03:05 PM

  id rather be loved.. i wouldnt want to be feared.. for example would you want to make people fear you and pretend to like you or w/e or be nice to u cuz they fear u its kinda stupid cuz they in reality dont like u or w/e... id rather be loved cuz its geniune and its real
 
   
True_vanilla
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Posted: October 08 2006 at 03:06 PM

  do you know that love is the biggest downfall of men?
 
   
x__que_linda
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Posted: October 08 2006 at 03:09 PM

  is it because they are scared to commit or something or seem weak if they show their emotions... from a guys point of view why is love the biggest downfall of men?
 
   
big_john
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Posted: October 08 2006 at 03:57 PM

  'All You Need Is Love'- The Beatles
 
   
True_vanilla
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Posted: October 08 2006 at 04:20 PM

  when i said its the greatest downfall for men, i didnt mean about emotions, you have to look into a wider perspective. because of love we have jelousy, with powerful leaders who become jelous we get wars. many wars began because of jelousy. Also, you may love and respect a group of people but they dont necessarily respect you back and and can fuck you over at any given time and use ur own love against you. When we speak of love we dont only have to define it in the sense of a woman's and man's relationship. there is a far greater view on this which is too complicated for ppl on this site lmao
 
   
True_vanilla
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Posted: October 08 2006 at 04:22 PM

  when people fear you, they wont ever fuck with you. When they love you and you are too close to them you always have to be ready for a setback because people love to use one another for their own selfish ways.
 
   
Romeo69
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Posted: October 08 2006 at 04:42 PM

  ur one deppressed dude eh ? get a life man lol
 
   
True_vanilla
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Posted: October 08 2006 at 05:54 PM

  depressed dude? i do have a life, i prolly got a more worth-while life than you... I open up my ideas and thoughts and open up other peoples thoughts to get a better understanding of things in life. Learn from experience and learn from history so you can become someone. When i say learn from experience i dont mean learn the type of bullshit everyone says they go through such as: getting cheated, getting drunked, smoking weed, going to clubs, going to parties, and so on. these type of activites are for those who dont have a life because they are bored, bacsically someone like YOU. Go read a book, or go read some facts on the internet so your 'nobody' personality can actually contribute somethign to this world instead of sitting on your chair and calling me depressed.
 
   
rus_allince
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Posted: October 08 2006 at 06:06 PM

  totaly agree with Misha here...(True_Vanilla) bout what he said to Romeo69

anyways...back to the topic
i think its better to be both
when u are feard....nobody can fool you...cuz they are scared of you....and everyone looks up to you,and so on..as misha said here. but there are some things bout being feard that are not so good..such as: u have friends..but they are not really your friends..they are just your friend because they are scared of you and its better for them to be liked by you...by someone who everyone is scared of.

me personally,i rather be loved...or both(depennds who is scared of me)....love can beat everything in this world.....thats my opinion..ppl who dont have love,dont have feelings...they've got nothing to offer and have a very boring and a sad life. and plus i wanna add..that love brings out fear.
 
   
True_vanilla
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Posted: October 08 2006 at 06:27 PM

  i like ur answer, very nice. i would agree about love, but fear is the key to power, humans dont needs friends, they need slaves. I guarantee anyone in this world if they were given the power to control the world and have everything they wished for, they would choose it over love, to u in person they would say "oh yea i would definately choose love over power" but in reality deep in our hearts we desire power, with power comes wealth, to keep power and wealth you have to be feared or u will lose ur authority and ur side of the opposition. if people love you, that means ur too nice and generous until someone fucks u over, always happens. when u have more people who love u, they can tell u off anytime when u do something wrong, but when they fear u they shit their pants and dont say anything
 
   
rus_allince
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Posted: October 08 2006 at 08:48 PM

  yes thats true also...but if a person has power (money,wealth etc...) and dosent have love,happiness...feelings...what kind of a person would he be?...a robot! lets take all those celebraties for example...they have money,they have power...they have everything they want...but most of them are not happy..they are in a complete different world than us....they dont have love..most of them change their bf's/hasbands as often as they change their underwear...its true they have power..they have money they have everything...they have nice homes.. a succesful careeer....but like i said....most of them are not happpy....cuz they live in the same style over and over again....buy fancy shit....first class vecations...i admit..i am jealouse ..but when i think that those ppl dont have love..it kills me...then im not jealouse at all..cuz i know that love is power...and as i stated in my previous reply..Love can beat anything in this world...if you just believe in it..i know it sounds...cheesy..but its true.
 
   
rus_allince
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Posted: October 08 2006 at 08:55 PM

  lets face it....all those nice things we get and all those people who make us happy...that is love...it comes from love...love is something that we give...and respect is something that we own...and its hard to respect someone.u must do something to be respected..something goood...and good comes from love. but we all know that there is more hate..then love..more bad ppl then good ppl....this world has more hate in it. and those who see everything in pink are seariously on crack....those who are always positive in any kind of a situation is also on crack...stop living in LALA land and come back to reality!
 
   
missMUFFIN
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Posted: October 08 2006 at 09:01 PM

  AGREED
 
   
Romeo69
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Posted: October 08 2006 at 09:45 PM

 
 
   
True_vanilla
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Posted: October 09 2006 at 12:09 AM

  those celebrities dont have happiness because they dont know what to do with it. With money comes love, alot of it with many people kissing ur ass, u know how many girls think brad pitt is hot and would marry him for his looks! but thats not the point, having people fear u is prolly the greatest achievment you may have, because with fear comes conquering anyhting you want. i rather force people to love me, then try to be nice and make everyone happy so everyone can talk shit about me like an example with george bush. love causes too much headache, soon love will disapear and virual relaity sex will kick in, then robot sex, who needs woman and men anymore!
 
   
True_vanilla
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Posted: October 09 2006 at 12:10 AM

  for mose's sake, we got cyber sex here already!
 
   
rus_allince
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Posted: October 09 2006 at 12:16 AM

  well i dont know.....i stick by what i said....there is no right or wrong here..these r just opinions of ppl....and its good ..right now...as teenagers we are able to discuss this kind of topics...wow its nice
 
   
True_vanilla
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Posted: October 09 2006 at 12:26 AM

  i got more topics for later days, dont wanna burn up all ur minds with too much thought lol
 
   
True_vanilla
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Posted: October 09 2006 at 12:27 AM

  except nobody is actually fucking stating their opinions
 
 
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