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Tinkerb1tch

39 / Female

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Posted: July 20 2006 at 05:42 PM

Is always a good thing.

But what do you do when it works TOO well...

Soooo I work at the bank and this cute guy comes in all the time to make deposits for his company. Anyways... hes always hitting on me and I just kind make it no big deal.. he asked for my number recently so I gave it to him and when I turned my cell on right after I finished working that day I had a text msg from him.

That kinda turns me off but at the same time I'm flattered by it. Anyone understand what I'm saying?

Last edited by Tinkerb1tch on July 20, 2006 a 5:44 PM

Tyoma

37 / Male

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Posted: July 20 2006 at 05:50 PM

lol i wish i had such small problems to worry about...why make it into such a big deal, if you like him msg/call him back go out if it works out, mazel tov, if it doesn't, it doesn't what can you do, i never understood this whole playing hard to get thing...useless childish games

rus_allince

50 / Male

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Posted: July 20 2006 at 06:14 PM

i agree..it is a childish game and its uselesss
if u like him,go out..and if u dont do force urself to like him

u urself gave him ur number so now he knows that u r interested u know.....

u dont need to play hard to get
he might think something..and u might ruin it..

Tinkerb1tch

39 / Female

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Posted: July 20 2006 at 06:43 PM

LMFAO I've been doing this for a while and trust m older guys like the little games... as long as you don't drag it on and on.

rus_allince

50 / Male

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Posted: July 20 2006 at 06:44 PM

yah true..as long as u dont drag itt on for too long then its ok

id_fcuk_me

39 / Male

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Posted: July 20 2006 at 07:44 PM

in my opinion that seems a bit desperate. its like you guys just met and hes already thinking big things. i have an older sister and she always tells me to wait a day or two depending on the situation. but the same day? seems hurting.

soviet_soldie

40 / Female

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Posted: July 20 2006 at 09:27 PM

guy is desparate for msging u the same day!!!
i never call not txt for at least 2 days .. rule number 1... never show too much interest

id_fcuk_me

39 / Male

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Posted: July 20 2006 at 10:02 PM

	Quote: soviet_soldie
	guy is desparate for msging u the same day!!! i never call not txt for at least 2 days .. rule number 1... never show too much interest

exactly... rule #1 =) .... makes you look soft

soviet_soldie

40 / Female

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Posted: July 20 2006 at 10:10 PM

niceguy360

40 / Male

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Posted: July 20 2006 at 10:43 PM

and it makes u look horny. UNLESS the girl says call me tonight

big_john

44 / Male

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Posted: July 20 2006 at 10:46 PM

women are such complecated creatures, i dont think they even understand what's going on inside their head most of the time.

anyways, did u text/call that mofo back or are u gonna make him sweat for a few days.

personally, i think its kinda hot when the girl gets involved and makes a few plays- not necessairly the first move- but a move nonetheless.

mar1a

36 / Female

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Posted: July 20 2006 at 10:49 PM

omgg i kno exactly wut u mean i fukin hatee it! .. butt then again u kinda feel speciall lol

..idunoo..i love a chasee

...like if u turned ur cell on and then got the text the next day it wud be better

Tinkerb1tch

39 / Female

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Posted: July 21 2006 at 08:22 AM

I know... I was thinking the same thing about him being desperate. I did wait to text him back... not a WHOLE day but I got his text @ 5:00 and I msged him back @ around 11:00. Then yesterday he came in again and HE STOLE MY FRIGGEN PEN

SO I text him saying "I want my pen"... he writes "you want me" with a little fucking winky face and I wrote "fine keep the pen."

But wait I want HIM? Hes the one who can't get his cock out fast enough!! LOL

Hes a cocky little thing... I told him right to his face too!

Last edited by Tinkerb1tch on July 21, 2006 a 8:23 AM

shawnka

36 / Female

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Posted: July 22 2006 at 01:47 PM

but thats good. that means hes interested in you and he wants to keep talking to you. why would that be bad? like he got ur number and txtd you.

shawnka

36 / Female

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Posted: July 22 2006 at 01:48 PM

dont play hard to get hah. theres no point. u already gave him ur number and that shows him automatically that ur interested! so nah theres no point. if u like him then go for it. if u dont then just forget about him and the whole thing.

Tinkerb1tch

39 / Female

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Posted: July 22 2006 at 04:29 PM

	Quote: shawnka
	dont play hard to get hah. theres no point. u already gave him ur number and that shows him automatically that ur interested! so nah theres no point. if u like him then go for it. if u dont then just forget about him and the whole thing.

I was playing that whole hard to get thing before I gave him my number then he txd me like 2 hrs later lol

Tyoma

37 / Male

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Posted: July 22 2006 at 07:57 PM

Quote: Tinkerb1tch

	Quote: shawnka
	dont play hard to get hah. theres no point. u already gave him ur number and that shows him automatically that ur interested! so nah theres no point. if u like him then go for it. if u dont then just forget about him and the whole thing.

I was playing that whole hard to get thing before I gave him my number then he txd me like 2 hrs later lol

what's the big deal, he probably had a free moment of boredom and he decided to msg you. that's what i would do if i'm not busy and i have a girls number i just recently acquired, may as well call her

Junkie

40 / Male

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Posted: July 23 2006 at 12:11 AM

im hard to get!

im playing hard to get im just hard to get
right now impossible to get

hot ?

rus_allince

50 / Male

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Posted: July 23 2006 at 12:27 AM

Jekachka

40 / Male

Posts:20
Rank: Regular
Posted: July 23 2006 at 03:33 AM

I'd agree with the people who said its useless....why play hard to get or play easy to get? why waste your time trying to be those things ...why not jsut be yourself? You want to give him a call then give him a call dont wait 2-3 days...whats the point? desperate? jsut cuz a guy/girl calls you after they got the number doesnt make them desperate...i mean thats WHY they got the number so they can call you.....if they do call you it shows that they are interested in you....dont understand why people cant jsut act like they want to and not liek the society showed them..you going to play hard to get just cuz its a cool thing to do? ....waste your time...its all right by me

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