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faded9

36 / Female

Posts:1043
Rank: SuperGod
Posted: April 10 2007 at 12:09 AM

stole this from a friend....it's true tho

The ones who waited all night for him to call, only to check the caller ID the next morning and be disappointed. The ones who made it through that bitter break up,dried your own tears, and moved on with your life, only to have him walk back in it months later like nothing ever happened. Those of you who cried on the first day you talked again because you knew exactly where this phone call was going. The ones who listened to him say, I only want to be your friend, one day, and the next, listened to him say how much he loves and misses you. We deserve something, and this is our tribute. Here's to the ones that took him back, hoping that maybe this time, he was different, hoping that maybe people really do change. We listened to our friends tell us that we were stupid for even thinking about giving him another chance, caught crap from our parents, and even snuck around to see him for while. We went through the great stage with no fights all over again. We started this out thinking it would be just friends, and ended up falling in love with him again. We wanted nothing more in the world than to hear him tell us he loved us too, that even though things were bad in the past, they would be different this time. And when we finally heard it, it was like we were dreaming. This is for us. Here's to the ones who believed what he said, sat around all over again waiting for a phone call that might come in a few hours, or a few days. Here's for the tears cried and dried all over again. We wanted so desperately to believe that he was really busy, he couldn't possibly call us at that moment, or even that he fell asleep early. We trained ourselves to believe the lies because we wanted to believe we had found the one for us. We learned to SETTLE for someone who didn't treat us the way we should be treated. Here's for the ones who did their hair and make up and put on their prettiest earrings, only to hear him say that he couldn't see us today. The ones who never believed it when people told us there might be someone else. We just couldn't believe that he could do this to us again. This is for those great girls, who loved him more than words can say, and took him back no matter what happened last time because they couldn't bear to look back on their lives one day and wonder "what if". This is for the ones that held on to something that was never there to begin with. Here's to the girls who couldn't cry to their friends because of how stupid they felt. The ones who held it all in when things came crumbling to pieces again. This is for the ones who couldn't bear to even tell their mom what was going on, for fear of an "I told you so." The ones that could just TELL that they had made a mistake ever allowing him into their hearts, and their dreams again. We knew that we deserved better the entire time, that we deserved a guy who would call when he said he was going to, one that would come see us whenever he got the chance, one that would really care about us. We just wanted the one that we loved like that. Here's for the ones that FINALLY realized that he never gave a crap about them. Here's for the time that he broke your heart again. This is for those days spent trying to hold back the tears, and the tears that turned into anger, then disappointment. Here's for us girls who finally realized that we deserve better.
This is for those confusing days, when you miss him, and want nothing more than to hear his voice, or feel his arms around your waist. Stay strong, and remember that relationships are like broken glass, sometimes it's better to leave it alone rather than try to put the pieces back together and get hurt. Remember the times you cried, and how long it took you to even be able to look at another guy like that. When "your song" comes on the radio, turn the station. When the day comes that he realizes what a mistake he made and tries calling, turn your phone off. When he tries coming to your house, don't answer the door. Think of the broken promises, and the lies, the manipulation and the tears, the wasted moments and staying up all night wondering where the crap he was. Think of how your heart used to jump when your phone would vibrate in the middle of the night, and how it fell to your stomach when you saw it wasn't him, and realized that once again, he hadn't called when he said he was going to. One day, you'll find a guy who's worth all the tears, but he won't make you cry. You may think that you'll never care about someone like you did that guy that you always ran back to, but you will. It's gonna hurt like crap, and it's going to need time to heal, but the point is, it will heal. This is for those girls, who fell back in love with a guy, only to get hurt all over again

sekceenikki10

35 / Female

Posts:236
Rank: God
Posted: April 10 2007 at 10:54 PM

wow vicki i just fell in love with u ! lol i know u said u stole it from sumone else but wow lol i likee

Tinkerb1tch

37 / Female

Posts:1601
Rank: Moderator
Posted: April 11 2007 at 01:05 AM

I hate guys they're all twats,,,

joeshmo

39 / Male

Posts:8
Rank: Newbie
Posted: April 11 2007 at 10:11 PM

This thread needs a guy perspective. I'm one of those nice guys that girls always come to for advice (yes, I do have my own relationships, but I tend to keep my own drama to a minimum). Anyway, the advice I always give people, and follow myself, is once you break up, you break up. It's over, done, finita la comedia. There has to be something in a relationship that is final...to me, a breakup is it. If you set up a relationship so that the two people can run back to each other, it will never work, you will never know when to walk away.

As such, anytime a girl tells me she wants to break up with her boyfriend, I always make her think twice. And I tell her that if she does break up with him only to take him back the following, she's just asking to get hurt.

There are two important issues here: don't break up on a whim, reactively, or our of emotion. Never do anything in the heat of the moment. As of course once you, in your calm, peaceful, logical, and rational state, decide to break up, don't doubt your own decision. That just leads to a decrease in self-esteem and all the crap that comes with it.

AustralianGQ

35 / Male

Posts:217
Rank: God
Posted: April 29 2007 at 11:04 AM

AustralianGQ

35 / Male

Posts:217
Rank: God
Posted: April 29 2007 at 11:05 AM

oh please....

if a guy hurts u sometimes its ur fault, or partly ur fault.

u need to be self aware and aware of the guy u are dating, u need to look at signs that something is gonna happen here. and u need to end it before he screws u over here. u need to be responsible and mature and take iniative and dump this guy before he dumps you, u gotta be strong and do what u gotta do...

and ladies i have no sympathy for u if u take back a guy and he fucks u over again, u asked for it with ur ignorance and stupidty to take back a guy who screwed u over once. its ur OWN FAULT.

and plenty of girls are dumb bitches and throw all the blame on the guy when the guy dumped you....it was b/c u were a fucking bitch and he couldnt stand u anymore....and u got what u deserve. have some morals and some self respect and admit when u did wrong, dont throw blame on other ppl for ur bullshit

and tinkerb1itch...awwwwwww u sound bitter. what happened, got fucked over a few times?

everything ive said applies to u, its partly ur fault. yet like a ignorant fool u blame everything on the guy...real repsonsible that is....

ever think that ur the cause of partly to blame for a guy fucking u over....

exotik_barbie

39 / Male

Posts:303
Rank: God
Posted: April 30 2007 at 03:15 PM

Wow, That was long. I loved it, and i loved it becuz i can really connect with most of what it said.

My one opinion is simular to above...Is that once you've broken up, you have broken that bond..and its usually very hard to mend it back. My frend used to tell me "Ana it wont work cuz u broke it, once u break it, its broken, and not alot can change that fact unless you too can overcome that broken bond and start fresh." And we never could start fresh its just to hard, i mean if two ppl truly want to be with eachtoher then nothing can stand in thier way...but when theres multiple things involved ex: frends, family..usually at this age its not guna work especially cuz we're constanly growing and changing. Also what many people should know and realize through time is that just becus u love him desont mean u have to be with him...I know theres different kinds of love but the think is I love my ex, i do but i have realized we just cant be together we hurt eachother when we are together i just dont know what it is but its so hard for us to over come certain things..Maybe in the far near future we can work it out or even talk without feeling weird..it wud be nice bcuz i really do love him but right now we have our own worlds and we cant mix them..maybe we never will...Life will only show our paths as we live it out. Everything happens for a reason.

exotik_barbie

39 / Male

Posts:303
Rank: God
Posted: April 30 2007 at 03:19 PM

oh and clearly its NEVER only one persons fault, overall picture is BOTH ppl you BOTH got into the realtionship you were both in it and you both somehow fucked up...UNLESS theres a situation with only one side being wrong then yes..but look at the overall situation!!

lizachka103

34 / Female

Posts:109
Rank: Addict
Posted: May 02 2007 at 02:09 AM

do uthink those guys care about the girl at all??
liek what is this all about
a girl who loves a guy whodoesnt love her bakc, takes advantage of her love?

faded9

36 / Female

Posts:1043
Rank: SuperGod
Posted: May 02 2007 at 09:40 AM

i put this up to see what othe people have to say

i know who i am and i respect myself i never let a guy treat me like shit i know i am more worth a lot and deserve someone who treats me well, i also have a loving family and friends who don't want to see me get hurt, if a guy is going to keep cheating on me and doing stupidness and i also take him back multiple times i would except my sister to beat me till i am in the hospital and my parents won't even let him on my property.

Youwish

37 / Male

Posts:293
Rank: God
Posted: May 04 2007 at 11:25 AM

fuck you for writing such a long post

Youwish

37 / Male

Posts:293
Rank: God
Posted: May 04 2007 at 11:26 AM

CUNT

faded9

36 / Female

Posts:1043
Rank: SuperGod
Posted: May 04 2007 at 01:08 PM

wow ur lame and your words don't hurt me

Tinkerb1tch

37 / Female

Posts:1601
Rank: Moderator
Posted: May 04 2007 at 11:45 PM

	Quote: AustralianGQ
	and tinkerb1itch...awwwwwww u sound bitter. what happened, got fucked over a few times? .

No, just stating the obvious~

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